The man of your dreams is in the same room as you are. You actually just met, but now you’re nervous and don’t know how to hook him. It’s a common problem, we have all experienced before. Women who know these few simple rules to attract a man can make it look so easy. Listen carefully and become irresistable for him.
It might be a cliché, but our number one is proven to be successful. Eye contact is an obvious sign that you’re checking him out. For the best results the eye contact should last at least 3 seconds, maybe longer. Then a few minutes later try to make eye contact again. Don’t forget to put on your cutest smile to make sure he knows you like him. It’s scientifically proven that it makes people happy when someone smiles at them. So it’s a good thing when that happy feeling is connected to you.
Let your body do the talking! There are a lot of ways to use body language to attract someone or let a guy know you’re into him. Leaning in is a popular and seductive technique to keep his attention. Briefly touching him and mirroring his movements are two other ways to use your body in your advantage. Body language is all about feeling. A good way to improve your skills is to observe how other people behave when they flirt.
Steal Him Away From His Pack
When he’s with friends, that might be intimidating. It’s more difficult to have an intimate talk with someone, when there are others listening and watching. If you want to talk to him, you have to get him out of there. Maybe you even feel like just leaving all people behind and go for a romantic walk and a flirty talk.
Confident women are very attractive. They appear to be strong, independant and hard-to-get. Desperate woman don’t usually succeed in attracting men. They tend to think ahead and talk to men as if they are already in a six month relationship. And that happens to be a perfect technique to have men running away as fast as they can. Just be relaxed and take it one step at a time.
Giggle when he tells a joke. Let him know that you think he’s funny. When you laugh with his jokes, you prove to be a perfect match. You shouldn’t be giggling all the time, because that’s just annoying. But just make sure he knows you think he’s the perfect man for a happy and playful date. It will make him feel good about himself and boost his confidence. When a man feels confident around you, he’ll want to spend more time with you. So that’s the key to a second date.
Listen to what he has to say and show interest in him. I guess that won’t be so hard, since you’re already trying to seduce him. But be careful, because there’s a fine line between showing interest and being pushy. Showing interest is listening to his story and ask a question or two about that. Don’t interrogate him as if he’s the suspect in a murder investigation. Interest could be experienced as obsession sometimes.
Show That You’re Interesting
Show him that you’re interesting too. Tell him something about yourself. The danger in this tip is that trying to be interesting can easily go wrong. Telling stuff about yourself might sound like you’re bragging and that is the last thing you want to do. The best way to use this tip is to be a woman of the world and know a little about a lot of topics. Men like to be around women who are witty and intelligent.
Appearance matters, even though everyone claims they’re attrated to what’s inside. The fist impression is very important. Most of the time, this first impression decides if someone wants to get to know one another. Make sure you look your best. Supposedly, wearing red should give you a head start. Red is a color of passion and it’s a definite eye catcher. A little confidence and a smile help to make you look stunning.
With a good perfume you will smell like flowers. Smell is a sense that has been underrated for a long time. Though everyone knows how important it is. Some smells remind you of your youth, other smells make you run away quickly. You’ll want to use the kind of smell that makes him think of you every time he smells the same perfume somewhere else.
Keep Him Waiting, Just A Little
Once you got his attention and he’s aware of the fact that you’re checking him out, he might get interested and want to talk to you. Don’t be too eager to answer his approach. You don’t want to look like you’re depending on this talk. You’re confident. Letting him wait for just a little while, will make him want you even more.
Don’t despair when you fail. These tricks aren’t all that magical, but they might help. Attraction happens or it doesn’t. These tips are just a guideline to help you on your way. Most of these techniques have been tested by scientists and are proven to be succesful. But that doesn’t mean he will be the love of your life. These tips will help you to draw his attention and keep it. What happens next, nobody knows.
One of the most important things in the game of seduction is confidence. People who are radiating and bursting with confidence are very likely to get a date. You can build up your confidence in many different ways. Feeling good about yourself is the best way to start. Make sure you are comfortable in your clothing and fashion style, go to the gym and get in shape and expand your social circle. Friends bring you joy and joy makes you happy. Everybody likes to be around someone who’ is contagiously happy.