10 Steps On How To Attract A Man You Just Met

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The man of your dreams is in the same room as you are. You actually just met, but now you’re nervous and don’t know how to hook him. It’s a common problem, we have all experienced before. Women who know these few simple rules to attract a man can make it look so easy. Listen carefully and become irresistable for him.

Eye Contact

It might be a cliché, but our number one is proven to be successful. Eye contact is an obvious sign that you’re checking him out. For the best results the eye contact should last at least 3 seconds, maybe longer. Then a few minutes later try to make eye contact again. Don’t forget to put on your cutest smile to make sure he knows you like him. It’s scientifically proven that it makes people happy when someone smiles at them. So it’s a good thing when that happy feeling is connected to you.

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How To Date Your Ex-Boyfriend’s Best Friend

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So, you’re interested in your ex-boyfriend’s best friend – talk about awkward. Dating your best friend’s ex or your ex’s best friend is a no-no in any rule book you will ever find. It’s in the bro code, it’s in The Rules and it is generally the source of so-called “drama”. But then again, there’s always the exception that proves the rule, so today we’re talking about how to date your ex-boyfriend’s best friend. A taboo, for most people? Maybe. But that doesn’t mean it can’t be done; just that you need some tact.

Of course, when you first realize that you are attracted or seriously interested in the best friend of your ex-boyfriend, you may feel slightly weird about it. It’s a serious dilemma, and most people experience feelings of shame or guilt, in this situation. Do you go after the guy, and risk pissing the ex-boyfriend off? Do you let him get away and then always wonder what could have been? It is quite a pickle. But let’s take things step by step, shall we?

First thing’s first – figure out just how interested you are in this man. Is he just a passing interest or do you seriously want to become his girlfriend, because there’s a difference, and one is worth the hassle and the other just isn’t. So before you start wondering how to date your ex-boyfriend’s best friend, first take the time to realize if you really want him or not. Once you’ve got it all figured out, you can proceed to step two.

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How To Date A Girl Out Of Your League

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Tips and Tricks to Shoot and Score

Get Your Mental on and you can have ANY Girl you Want!

What’s important here is you already recognize this girl is out of your league. It’s a natural draw for guys to want what they feel or think they can’t have. Scientific research studies show further, many times when the guy gets what he thinks he can’t have, that’s when reality smacks him in the face to show him he really doesn’t want it.

Ironic don’t you think?

It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to narrow this down to very ill self-confidence levels. If you have confidence in yourself and abilities to capture the undivided attention of women, then you would never think or say a girl is “out of your league,” right? You know I’m right!

We are going to look to bandage the situation and I’ll enlighten you on pointers that will help you bust through your walls of disbelief in you, and nail it. Here are a few do’s and don’ts to get you started. [Read more…]

Avoid The Friend Zone And How to Get Out Of It If You Are In It

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According to the urban dictionary, friend zone is a state where a man fails to impress a woman he is interested in either romantically or sexually. In other words, as soon as your love interest refers to you as a friend, it is all over; or is it?

No One Likes To Be Friend Zoned.

This article will guide help you prevent yourself from getting trapped in the friend zone. Of course, the danger is all too real which is why you will also be instructed on how to bail yourself out if you are in one.

Avoid the Friend Zone

1. Be Bold

The old adage “Nice guys finish last” holds true here. One of the common reasons why men get friend zoned is that the objects of their affections simply do not find them attractive. The relationship becomes one sided. Maybe you are too impassive in her presence for her to notice you as a potential match. Communicate what you want. Guessing games will get you friend zoned faster than you imagine. Who knows? Asking for a date right out might bode well for you. It will show her that you are willing to make and effort and take risks. Remember, not all women are attracted to agreeable men. Coming across as a person who values the feelings of others more than his own will not always play out. You need to show that you are confident in yourself. Try to find a balance between fulfilling your own desires as well.

2. Know The Difference Between A Romantic Relationship And Friendship

Looking for common ground before getting in too deep might be the obvious thing to do but it might not always work out in your favor. Find out what she values in a romantic relationship and work towards it.

Don’t behave like a friend. In other words, try not to be like what her own friends are like with her. Talk to her about her plans for the weakened and her passions. She might sense chemistry and love may blossom. Remember, you cannot make your move if she is surrounded by a lot of people. Grab the chance to talk to her when she is alone and let your intentions show gradually. Taking pains to be with her privately will give her a hint.

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16 Things Every Couple Should Do Together Before Having Kids

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So you are married and the parents just cannot stop asking about future grand kids? You on the other hand, are still confused. Marriage is a big commitment but having a kid is actually a bigger commitment, babies might look really cute from a distance but all that cuteness goes away when they start crying and pooping all the time. Having a baby restricts you from doing a lot of things, you make compromises and your priorities change.

So before having a baby and make a bucket list do everything that you would want to do to enjoy your life to the fullest. Here are some of our suggestions:

Travel

Go see the world with your better half, discover new places and eat exotic food. You would never be able to relax as much while travelling when you have kids. Even a trip to Disneyland would sound scary with the over excitement and the sugar rush.

Travel to the mountains together or choose a beachy holiday, you could also go backpacking together which would be a completely terrible idea once you have kids.

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2. Know each other’s bad habits

When you are just married and living with each, it opens up gates to so many more things you never even knew existed. It is like trying and adjusting with a whole new roommate, except now, you are bound with one and you cannot change him.

Understand each other, know each other’s bad habits and decide which one of them gets to stay and which ones just have to stop. Know what drives each other crazy, how to compromise on this and when to take a stand for yourself.

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