Tips and Tricks to Shoot and Score
Get Your Mental on and you can have ANY Girl you Want!
What’s important here is you already recognize this girl is out of your league. It’s a natural draw for guys to want what they feel or think they can’t have. Scientific research studies show further, many times when the guy gets what he thinks he can’t have, that’s when reality smacks him in the face to show him he really doesn’t want it.
Ironic don’t you think?
It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to narrow this down to very ill self-confidence levels. If you have confidence in yourself and abilities to capture the undivided attention of women, then you would never think or say a girl is “out of your league,” right? You know I’m right!
We are going to look to bandage the situation and I’ll enlighten you on pointers that will help you bust through your walls of disbelief in you, and nail it. Here are a few do’s and don’ts to get you started.
DO: Lighten the Mood With Jokes
Craveonline.ca experts report research shows laughter is one sure-fire way to a girl’s heart. Do you think your date would rather have a funny boyfriend or a straight up stick in the mud? Precisely. Psychologists back this one up saying that making light of a serious situation or finding a way to break the silence with a smile is HUGE in establishing trust and opening your
mind to positivity. You could say girls are naturally programmed to lust a guy that makes them laugh.
So work on your funny so those out of reach chicks will dig you.
DON’T: Put Yourself Down
This one is totally unattractive. Even if it’s true you should NEVER belittle yourself in front of any girl. Those golden girls out there don’t want to be with a man that’s on suicide watch or that can’t seem to find anything they like about themselves. There’s a ginormous difference between poking fun at yourself to get a beautiful girl to laugh and slaughtering yourself.
Find your medium if you REALLY want that girl!
DON’T: Embellish the Truth to Get the Goods!
Behavioral experts from Psychology Today are the first to tell you lying is nasty! It’s nice to dream big but if you start lying about how much you make and what you do, and the fact you still live in your parent’s basement, you will NOT get the girl. You may “think” these beautiful girls want the guy that was born into success and money, but that’s not always the case. Those girls suck!
There’s no harm in exaggerating a teeny-weeny bit. Just don’t get carried away because eventually you will get burned and the hottie will not help you cool off afterward. Just don’t stoop that low please.
DO: Clean Yourself Up and Dress the Part
When you look good you feel good and this radiates beautifully around the room. If you are dressing below average this is the type of girl you are going to attract. However if you step it up a notch or two and put some thought and effort into how you look, then you are playing with the heavy hitters. You’ve now graduated into the field of seriously classy girls. Exactly where you want to be.
DON’T: Appear Like a Fish Out of Water
This one is touch because technically you are a fish out of water. But your focus here should be to hide or dismiss your intimidation. Don’t let the audience know you feel uncomfortable or nervous. Talk yourself up with confidence before you make an appearance. And make sure you are ready to converse smoothly and with intelligence. Think it and believe it and it WILL become your reality.
DO: Make Yourself Approachable and Interesting
This one may feel totally awkward initially. But you’ve got to walk the walk if you want to date the pretty ladies that “used” to be out of your league! All girls are looking for a man that is easy to talk to and interesting. This means you should turn the table on the girl and get her talking about herself. Under no circumstances should you start boring her with you! Lol
A guy that talks all about himself is viewed as full of hot air. Arrogant and obnoxious is not how you want to appear. So be polite and courteous, respectful and genuinely interested in what this girl has to say. Trust me – She appreciates it.
DON’T: Get Shy
Whatever you do this is not the time to get shy or start questioning yourself. A guy that’s shy signals insecurity and weak personality. Two traits those high-end girls won’t fly with. A confident man is a sex man. Someone that makes you want to know more and that’s your in.
Practice putting your shyness aside so you can open the lines of communication with these girls. You might want to practice talking to yourself in the mirror. Another tactic is making a list of ten thinks you love about yourself and repeat them religiously morning and night until you actually believe them.
Both of these tactics may seem lame but if you REALLY want that girl who’s out of your league, you’ve got to just DO IT! The Do-Her will come later!
DO: Get Forward
This one may be a little confusing but if you want to step outside of your comfort zone and capture the attention of the beauty standing in the tower of the Princess Castle, you’ve got to let her know! This doesn’t mean getting right in her face. That’s just a ticket for dismissal.
It means you need to get yourself noticed and be clever about it. Perhaps it could be something as simple as introducing yourself and paying her a compliment. Or you may get a little more forward and pick her up and swing her around on your meet and greet.
This is where you need to go with your gut and make sure you don’t chicken out. If you don’t try you will never ever in a zillion years get that beautiful girl you believe is high above you.
Life is choice. Use these tactical strategies to build your confidence to actually believe you can date a girl that’s classier than yourself. It’s all in the head. The bigger head.
Step One: Decide what you want.
Step Two: Work on tactics and strategies to form the belief you can have what you want.
Step Three: BELIEVE you can have the girl you want.
Step Four: Decide you are going to get what you want.
Step Five: Go get that girl you want.
Time for you to go get your girl and see if it’s really all you’ve dreamt it would be! Good Luck!