According to the urban dictionary, friend zone is a state where a man fails to impress a woman he is interested in either romantically or sexually. In other words, as soon as your love interest refers to you as a friend, it is all over; or is it?
No One Likes To Be Friend Zoned.
This article will guide help you prevent yourself from getting trapped in the friend zone. Of course, the danger is all too real which is why you will also be instructed on how to bail yourself out if you are in one.
Avoid the Friend Zone
1. Be Bold
The old adage “Nice guys finish last” holds true here. One of the common reasons why men get friend zoned is that the objects of their affections simply do not find them attractive. The relationship becomes one sided. Maybe you are too impassive in her presence for her to notice you as a potential match. Communicate what you want. Guessing games will get you friend zoned faster than you imagine. Who knows? Asking for a date right out might bode well for you. It will show her that you are willing to make and effort and take risks. Remember, not all women are attracted to agreeable men. Coming across as a person who values the feelings of others more than his own will not always play out. You need to show that you are confident in yourself. Try to find a balance between fulfilling your own desires as well.
2. Know The Difference Between A Romantic Relationship And Friendship
Looking for common ground before getting in too deep might be the obvious thing to do but it might not always work out in your favor. Find out what she values in a romantic relationship and work towards it.
Don’t behave like a friend. In other words, try not to be like what her own friends are like with her. Talk to her about her plans for the weakened and her passions. She might sense chemistry and love may blossom. Remember, you cannot make your move if she is surrounded by a lot of people. Grab the chance to talk to her when she is alone and let your intentions show gradually. Taking pains to be with her privately will give her a hint.